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I am a Christian and a faithful woman who unfortunately got married to a womaniser. I never enjoyed him once because he prefers to use his free time outside the home with either single girls or married women. I think is case is somehow spiritual he needs serious prayers. He even resorts to violence when I accused him of cheating, I mean he has started beating me because of other women!

He doesn't pay attention to me nor even touch me for weeks. To even pay a simple complement is wahala. Now I'm bored with it all.

I need a friend of the opposite sex not for sexual intimacy nor for extra marital affair but someone I can talk to, turn to for companionship, somebody I can call and he will be there when he wanders away.

Somebody I can look up to. Do you understand? I'm talking about a kind of relationship that existed between Jonathan and David. Do you know why? I dint want to develop hypertention thinking about him and his escapades. Or is there anything wrong with a married woman having a male friend especially if you married a man who is highly irresponsible and doesn't have time for you?

I wouldn't have been looking for somebody like that if i had married a decent man. Most times I am lonely even when he is around his presence doesn't make much impact because he is either watching TV or playing with his phones. Hope to hear from you soonest. You dont need a male companion even if you need a companion why not a female like you who understands what you are going through. Your relationship with any man would lead to sex.

What about devorce?. My advice - try to make urself happy and update ur profile. Myomy, my advice is to look inward and analyse the situation. What exactly could be the problem. Am i doing something that my husband does not like? Could it be a habit? You are a woman and the same women he meets outside are not any better than you are. Infact you are better than the women out there. You are he's soulmate. There are so many things that could actually drive a man or woman to seek solace outside.

Sex could be one of the major factors. If a married man is not sexually satisfied at home, he tends to find solace outside. Are there are habits that need to be changed? Do you have a listening ear? Do you have the patience to listen to what he'got to say? Have you ever thot why he rather prefers to seat and watch TV without you? Have you tried cooking he's favourite dish when he's in a more relaxed mood.

You say he plays with he's phone. Have you tried sending text messages to him not to complain but to appreciate him. Your husband is a man. Make him feel as the head of the home.

Marriage needs a lot of understanding. As the lady you really need to be patient and prayerful Take care. It is well. You way not accept your cross and pray to the Almighty God to interven in his life so that he can change for good soonest,.

Myomy I will be very sincere with you. You are not looking for a friend to talk to. You are looking for a way to get back at your husband. You are actually looking for someone you can develop intimacy with and then maybe have sex with.

I will advice against thatt as that carries a moral burden with it. Was he promiscous during your courtship? Did you have any suspicion that you were not the only one in his life? If you did and then went ahead to marry him, then you made your choice and you'll have to live with it.

Women who fail to understand that "the only change you can find in marriage is for the worse" always make such mistakes. Now if he was not the promiscous type, then check yourself. Do you nag him? From what you have, it seems you've not been married for too long. Did you lose your appeal? Some women marry and then become so lousy in dressing that the husband cannot stand him. Do you deprive him of the kind of sex you know he enjoys. Some women are fantastic in bed before marriage but after that, they assume they hold the four aces and become so drab in bed that the unfortunate man has no option but to seek for what he is used to outside.

There are lots of other things I can write about that make men look outside and none is even close to being spiritual. Look again at the marriage before and after and take a wise decision but a male friend to talk to and get close to? If u dey find assistant husband, talk!! Another angle I am even looking at is the christianity angle. I know a woman who will not dare to be intimate with her husband in the open because she claims to be born again.

I don't know about inside oh! This same woman might have been hot before she became born again!!! Want a personal contact? Else find a hobby,at least he has found one. Why would ask not to be crucified? When u know nairalanders love to bite at this kind of silly story. I beg, all ye people. Why does it have to be that the woman did anything wrong , why oh why?

Can't the guy be the bad guy for once. Nagging - lost your appeal my a. My dear, Search yourself, if you are certain there is nothing wrong with you, then celebrate yourself. Look for other things that may fulfill you, but do not look for male companionship? Just ignore the ignoramus, appreciate who you are, keep praying and God will sort you out. Dear Myomy, I do realise that you are passing through a difficult time, and my heart goes out to you.

But, i must tell you that the path that you are purposing to take can only lead to one conclusion, more confusion, and eventually heartache.

I cant remember if you mentioned having kids or not, but i will grant you this piece of advice, call you husband and have a heart to heart talk with him, find out what the root cause of the problem is, and after that try to sort it out.

If that works the better, but if it doesnt, you might consider other means, are there people he respects and looks up to? For if you decide to get a male friend, its only a matter of time before the inevitable happens, then you would have given your husband all the ammo he needs to finish you, for our society is more tolerant of a philandering husband, than a lascivicious wife.

You mentioned being a xtian, look within yourself for answers, for we as human beings always have a choice, but lack the courage to make it. I pray it will work out for you in the end. The only advise I will give u is to call me at the middle of the night,beg him to tell u what u've done to deserve that kind treatment.

Pls examine urself are a nag,unappreciative,disrespectful etc. Just flash back if u can remember the what happen on the first day he beat u. Sister,I believe if had prayed very well and had sought the face of God He would have shown u the real picture of that man. I know that God can never give his children what is not good. U might have made mistakes when decided to go to d alter with with him.

The only advice I will give is to be persistent in prayer and fasting,i believe there is nothing God cant do. So please,dont make friend with opposite sex,if u do,ur husband may send u parking. Even same sex can also be dangerous,cos bad company corrupts good manners.

Confine only in the Lord and He shall give u rest and joy. I feel for u. Poster Give me that forsaken p ussy and I will make your husband forever want you - he will be green with envy as i pound the p ussy to utmost pleasure - common - why will u stay with him if he cheats and beats you? Where r the divorce courts? Why must p ussy sufer at the hands of an unresponsive man?

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I am a Christian and a faithful woman who unfortunately got married to a womaniser. I never enjoyed him once because he prefers to use his free time outside the home with either single girls or married women. I think is case is somehow spiritual he needs serious prayers.

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